Thoughts About Fellowships

I'll be joining the first meeting for the Inter-Youth Fellowship in Tanjay City. The venue will be in our Church with the invitation from the different denominations in the area. This will be a second run of the former group Viz and I used to help out with around 5 years ago.

Well, most of the leaders we had before are either married or out of the country. And it leaves us with Viz and me helping out the group.

Just for the record, I was the former president for the Inter-Youth for almost a year before it went to it's "desert times". I call it desert times because it's the time or the season wherein everyone seems to be busy with their own churches forgetting that the travel and journey requires all christians - from all denominations alike - to walk and finish the journey set before us.

Unfortunately, when I was leading the said group, not all youth groups from the area was interested in pursuing fellowship and togetherness. There were other agendas from the different churches except for the leaders who passionately pursued togetherness even when there were a lot of hard times in the ministry.

I loved the time when the youth leaders from the different churches would meet in Rizal Park just to discuss what we can do and prayed for one another. It was exhausting on my part because I was studying in Dumaguete at that time and the rest were working as well.

Another reason why some churches pulled-out their youth at that time was because of dating and relationships. There were issues about where the newly weds will go to church and stuff that I believe was not supposed to be a good reason for a pull-out. But since the one involved was a former youth pastor of another church, they decided to pull-out.

Well, let's hope and pray this particular group will not do the same mistake as before. Of course, I am not being pessimistic about this one. There are just a couple of things I want to clear to the group before they decide whether they'd push through or not.

I dont want them to start out with so many youth joining only to find out a few months after that it became less than 10 youth joining with the leaders included.

Here are a couple of things I'd be asking them, just in case you want to know:

• What drives them to establish the youth fellowship again? This is one important question these youth have to ask themselves. This will determine whether their plan has sprouted out of the desires of God implanted in their hearts or it's just another man-driven activity because they long for something else.
• Have they prayed about this? Another important factor we need to remember is that, every activity or event needs to be covered and lifted up in prayer. It just doesn't count when we just speak about it in public. It needs to be speak forth in the spiritual realms through prayer in the inner rooms.
• What is their vision for the group? Although this may sound weird, but fellowship is not enough for a group to survive. It needs a vision to let them move on and continue. The people of Israel forced themselves to travel for more than forty years because they have envisioned living int the promised land. As a youth group, they need to have a bigger foresight on how this group can become effective witnesses to society, the nation and the world for God's Kingdom purposes.

Of course, there are a lot of other things I want to discuss with them but I believe this 3 important questions are what matters most before they start. And yes, I will definitely fully support this cause because I strongly believe in unity and fellowship of believers to reach this nation for Christ!